LESSON 9: Appreciate Your Improvements
As you have experienced by now, knowing and following the 1 Rule is all you really need
to create harmony between you and your kids. Following it brings about all the following
side-effects, and more! AS you've used the 1 Rule, you must have used some of the
108 tools, skills and strategies I’ve discovered and created, without having to learn
them. You may have come up with some of your own.
Side-Effects Of the 1 Rule
• Harmony With Kids
• Positive Respect Mindset
• Respectful Kids
• Confident Kids
• Harmonious Kids
• Personal Clarity
• Ability To Shift Your Thinking
• Being A Good Model
• Raising Trustworthy Kids
• Ending Conflict
• Self-Respect
Questions
1. Become aware of times you and your kids find agreement. Write about them in your
journal.
2. Choose your favorite side effects out of the list of Side Effects of the 1 Rule. Write
them in your journal and write why they are your favorites. Write examples of how you
have experienced them.
3. List the side-effects you have not yet experienced that you would like to experience.
Write why you would like to experience them.